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UK Family Center offers free Relationship Checkups

UK Family Center offers free Relationship Checkups

UK Family Center offers free Relationship Checkups

This week, the UK Family Center is offering relationship checkups to Lexington-area couples.

Published on Feb. 9, 2015

LEXINGTON, Ky.—

Visiting a doctor regularly is regarded as a necessity for keeping the body healthy, just like routine maintenance performed on a car is vital for its continued functionality and reliability. However, one of the most important aspects of many individuals' lives is often overlooked — relationships.

In conjunction with Valentine's Day from Feb. 9-17 (excluding Feb.15), the University of Kentucky Family Center is offering free 'Relationship Checkups' to the Lexington community. These checkups are available for married couples, couples who are dating, engaged and/or living together, as well as gay and lesbian couples.

A Relationship Checkup can be scheduled by calling the UK Family Center at 859-257-7755 or by visiting the website at familycenter.uky.edu. The Family Center is located on the second floor of Scovell Hall on UK's campus.

The Relationship Checkups "seek to strengthen the relationship by finding out what you are doing right and helping the couple become even stronger by building on that," said UK Family Center Director Tracey Werner-Wilson. "They also help to get a conversation started about areas that may not be as satisfying in the relationship." 

"Just like everyone needs a six-month checkup at the dentist to help keep their teeth healthy, so, too, everyone in a romantic relationship benefits from a relationship checkup," said Werner-Wilson.

Appointments generally last one hour. Couples fill out a questionnaire, which is reviewed by an intern therapist. The answers, in conjunction with conversation with the couple, allow the intern to coach the couple on what they are doing well and help them figure out areas of disagreement.

It's not just couples who are struggling in their relationships who can attend. The UK Family Center suggests everyone in a relationship take advantage of these services.

Intern therapists are master's students, working to become licensed marriage and family therapists through UK's fully accredited Couple and Family Therapy program. Within 16 months, these interns must log 500 hours in client sessions. Interns are supervised and instructed three to four hours a week by a licensed marriage and family therapist.

To meet this demand for clients, the Family Center offers low-cost services to UK, Lexington, and surrounding communities. Utilizing a sliding scale fee, the Family Center works with clients to make therapy affordable for those who need it.

"Not only does it help our students attain the practice hours they need, but we see it as the service arm of UK's mission statement. We are helping all Kentuckians create a better life for themselves. We are improving the lives of Kentuckians, which creates an attractive place for people to live," Werner-Wilson said.

The UK Family Center first opened its doors in 1988, serving families, couples, and individuals alike. Common needs addressed by the Family Center include stress, relationship issues, parent-child conflict, behavioral issues in children, anxiety, and depression. Additionally, play therapy is offered to families with young children.

The focus of family science is to help understand and improve the lives of individuals, working with the roles that family and interpersonal relationships perform in shaping one's experiences.

"We believe lasting change happens within relationships. As humans, we do not live in a vacuum. We are constantly in a relationship with someone, not always a romantic relationship," Werner-Wilson said. Sometimes these relationships try to sabotage us when we try to change. If we include those relationships within the therapy sessions, they can become a support for change instead of fighting against change." 

This Valentine's Day, couples can do more than buy flowers and candy for their sweetheart — they can check up on their relationship and make it last for many Valentine's Days to come.


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Contact Information

Scovell Hall Lexington, KY 40546-0064

cafenews@uky.edu